It's not that I'd discourage making connections and you've chosen a good set of people to trust, so perhaps it's not even meant to be an issue -

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But of those connections you make, if you end up casually speaking about your death, it could upset them. The people here are kind, and I don't think that you'll find trouble if you truly reach out your hand to those that have earned your trust and you'll find that they'll meet you halfway.

But no one would want to see anything happen to you.

So finding that balance is still important.