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You can't tell someone how to grieve.

[It's the approach that Jae-ha's been taking with most of the people in the castle - Sanji included. It's what he wanted when he went through Gi-gan's death, personally.]

Both of them were out of line in a few different ways but... they both lost someone. The same person, even.

It's going to cause tension. I wouldn't assume it's a personal defect, not when it's so close to what happened.